Friday, September 25, 2009

Homeschooling...So Far, So Good!


This year we decided to try something new in homeschooling, called the "Charlotte Mason Method". I could give you a bunch of background information on the woman, but you can find that all over the internet and I'd rather not waste my time repeating all that. Instead, I'd like to talk about my experience so far using her "method".

Basically, it's about spending time with each child, one-on-one, encouraging them to learn and share what they've learned with enthusiasm. Isn't that what parenting is about anyway??? Sad as it may sound, it wasn't for me...

In the past, our homeschool days were so difficult. I never could figure out how to get it all done! Here I am, supposed to be this supermom, homeschooling one child while tending to two little ones, keeping the house clean, cooking and baking, being involved in friend, family and church activities, going here and there...it felt impossible.

This year I decided we needed to prioritize and keep some sort of schedule or routine. I am a perfectionist who sincerely appreciates organization but can never seem to figure out where to start! I make lists and keep calendars, type up color coordinated schedules and chore sheets, all to no avail. Then someone told me that I had to start with one thing that I wanted to change. I had to pick ONE thing and work from there...Seemed easy enough. But what? Hmm...

Well, I really want to get my life in order and live in a way that is simple and pleasing to God and hopefully teach my children how to do this before they're my age...and I was reminded of these great quotes from Hudson Taylor that I'd read recently:

"I have found that there are three stages in every great work of God; first, it is impossible, then it is difficult, then it is done." Hudson Taylor"

God's word done in God's way will never lack God's supplies." Hudson Taylor

So, the first thing we changed was starting the day with devotions. Duh. :o) That was the key! Rain or shine, we get up, make up our beds, eat our breakfast and then 8 a.m. we sit down for devotions and it makes all the difference in the world! Now our homeschooling days go so much smoother.

It's nothing fancy. I just give the kids an opportunity to present prayer requests and then share some of mine. We write them in our prayer journal, so we can be sure to offer thanks as we see the Lord at work in the situations. We pray, do a short devotional together and pray again, asking the Lord to help us apply it to our lives. It takes about 20 minutes altogether!

After that, we discuss and review our weekly memory verse from Proverbs. This weeks verse is, "The man of integrity walks securely, but the man who takes crooked paths will be found out." Proverbs 10:9 Jacob usually memorizes them by recitation. However, Joe writes it down each day as copywork and we play games to help him memorize it.

After that, we sing our hymn for the month, which is "Blessed Assurance" by Fanny Crosby. I found several links on youtube that we could sing with, until the kids got the hang of it. I also printed out the chords so Jake could learn to play it on his guitar. Now he plays and we sing!

This quarter we are learning about Raphael, the artist (as opposed to Raphael, the Ninja Turtle :o), focusing on several of his most popular pieces. We analyze and discuss what we see and have learned about the history of each painting. Then, I'll have the kids draw their own rendition of what they saw. They LOVE this! All the while, the music from one of this term's composers, Elgar or Vaughan Williams, is playing in the background. This, of course, is very inspirational music, and with all their inspiration they love to share all their observations about the instruments they hear and what the song is about.

Then our day goes on to reading (in many subjects), narration and math, for Joe as well as vocabulary and grammar for Jake.

Both of the boys have really enjoyed the classical literature that corresponds with Ambleside Online's curriculum program. Starting out, I was a little afraid that the vernacular might be a bit over our heads...but I'm happy to say, I underestimated us!

Jake is reading, The Sciences, Plutarch's Lives, Trial and Triumph, School of the Woods, Hamlet, The Hobbit and several others and has yet to complain that he's bored!

Joe and I read and enjoy Aesop's Fables, Trial and Triumph, 50 Famous Stories and several others as well. I do break things down for him a little and read with a lot of animation but he really loves it.

As for narration, I couldn't stop either of them from telling me what they've read and learned if I TRIED! lol They are so full of enthusiasm they tell everyone about it! It's incredible.

I really believe that this is the way children were created to learn and this is the way mothers were created to teach. It's wonderful.

If you would like to know more, just ask. I'd be happy to share our schedules and lesson plans with you too, if it will help you get a better idea of how to plan your own! We are using the curriculum, as suggested on Ambleside Online, for years 1 and 6. We've spent about $85 so far this year for school supplies. Most of the texts are available to read online! I'd be happy to share those links as well.

As for becoming supermom, I'm still working on it. :o) Surprisingly, however, even after spending all morning (from about 8-noon) working with my children in school, I still seem to have plenty of time to get everything else done too. My house has never been cleaner or more peaceful and my family has never been so happy!

Anyway, just wanted to share my encouragement with others. I am so blessed, happy and thankful that God has allowed me the privilege to homeschool. I'm really enjoying it, now more than ever before.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Climbing Offense


God's timing is so perfect! His love is so amazing! If I were Him, I would have given up on me a long time ago, but He is always faithful! I can't help but praise and thank Him for His wonderful grace and mercy! THANK YOU LORD!!!

Recently I found myself struggling with an offense. Toward who and regarding what, it doesn't matter. I was just having a hard time. I guess you could say, I was climbing offense and finding it very difficult to get over. :o) Know what I mean??? Well, allow me to elaborate and I'm sure you'll be able to relate. After all, I think it's part of our human condition to have our feathers ruffled, right? lol

It seemed that each day I'd find the peace I needed to get a grip and then someone or something would come along and tear it away! This was definitely one of those days and I knew there was only one thing to do...Pray...but I was surrounded by people! When and how was I going to get alone with God? I had to keep my cool and wait to act until I had some direction from God. All the while, my flesh and the Holy Spirit were having a tug-o-war! My flesh was dieing to get even and the Holy Spirit was challenging me to overlook the offense! Then, as if for confirmation, He sent along some friends to share this verse with me, JUST when I needed it...

"A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense." Proverbs 19:11

At the time I was too consumed with my problem to really process what they were talking about in relation to myself. But I'm so glad they planted the seed! Because the Lord used it to carry me through that moment and each moment after, until I could get alone with Him!

Now, I don't know about you, but God seems to teach me in themes and the current theme is humility. Over and over again, He has shown me just how arrogant and self-centered I am. And, just as He always does, after having spent some time in prayer about the situation, He showed me my arrogance and self-centeredness.

This is what came to me after my time in prayer:

The only one who benefits from an offense is Satan, and I definitely don't want to lend him a hand! I need to remember Whose I am. I am a servant of the Most High God! I shouldn't waste my time demanding my "rights" because I don't have any! Besides, being offended is a waste of time. I have much better things to do! It is God's place to judge, not mine. (How fortunate for the rest of the world! lol) So, I must leave the judgement to Him because I know He will do what is right!

Suddenly, when I realized who was really behind the offense, it became insignificant. And, just as suddenly, when I was reminded of my place in God's great mercy and grace, my patience was restored. He has since shown me how to get over this offense. I don't have to climb it! I just have to take a step of faith, forward, trusting Him with the rest.

One more thing I'd like to say here, for my own future reference...

Humility would be much more easily achieved if I would sincerely pursue it, if I would wholeheartedly participate in the process that God is using to mold me into the image of His Son. I need to put my pride aside and figure out what it is that He wants me to learn through each lesson, right from the start. (I realize this is easier said than done, that is why I'm hoping this reminder will help! :o)

In closing, I'd like to share one of my favorite verses that has also become my prayer in Psalm 26:2-3...

Test me, O Lord, and try me. Examine my heart and my mind; for Your love is ever before me,
and I desire to walk continually in Your truth.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

"In Spite of the Obstacles"


We started back to school last week and it was WONDERFUL!!! However, I've been so busy preparing for and participating in school I haven't had much time to post lately. Sorry 'bout that. However, if anyone is out there reading, hoping to find some encouragement here, as a wife, mom or homeschooler, I want to help...
I would like to share this link to a wonderfully encouraging sermon from Pastor Joe Gruchacz, my pastor, entitled, "In Spite of the Obstacles" and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Keep up the good work. Keep your eyes on the prize. Remember your calling. Take one day at a time. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Keep on swimming...and all those other cliches meant to encourage a person. :o) I mean them all from the bottom of my heart!

I pray God's continued blessings for you and your family!
Tammy